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Summer Camp Relationship?

  • Jill April 2010
    I work at a summer camp as a wrangler, teaching horseback riding. I love every second of it. Last summer, I became really close friends with one of my WITs (wranglers in training), not uncommon since we spend so much time together. He's a really sweet and funny guy. He's one of the only people who can consistently get me laughing to the point of crying. He had a girlfriend, so I didn't really think of being anything more than friends.

    Last weekend though, I met up with him at a camp fundraiser and found out he was hired on the camp staff and that he had broken up with his girlfriend from last summer. He was really flirting with me a lot. I secretly like him too, but don't know if I should let this become anything more than friends. We really get along well, but I don't want to put an awkward strain on my friendships with the other counselors. What do I do?
  • Anonymous Comment 1,Male, April 2010
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    Jesus this is a no brainer! :-) If you really like him and he likes you, just go for it! Life is too short so don't look back with regrets! Your personal happiness and the opportunity to be together is what's important! The other counsellors would do the same if they had the same feelings... the ones that say otherwise are full of bullshit. Why not go for it but keep it quite until you see how things go before letting everyone know...
  • Anonymous Comment 2,Female, June 2010
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    get together and get to know each-other if he puts a smile on ur face go 4 it girl
  • Anonymous Comment 3,Female, August 2010
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    follow your true feelings if you like him and he likes you i dont see a problem and neither should you!!!!!
  • Anonymous Comment 4,Female, August 2010
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    I say go for it if he really likes you and you really like him.
  • Anonymous Comment 5,Female, August 2010
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    i agree u shud go for him. he should like he lyks u back.
    if ur still doubting then why dont you just give it some time? and see how he feels about you?

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