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Abandoned

  • Jill June 2010
    Lots of problems... I got kicked out of my parents house, lost the car, was homeless for about three weeks... and moved into an apartment with my boyfriend after a month of saving (with no shower, food, bed, laundry, etc). After only four days of living together, he packed up all his junk and walked out on me. I wasn't so upset that I lost him as much as I lost my roommate. The day it happened, I told a friend who immediately offered to move in with me (and drag her husband along) to help with rent and to keep me company. Not a week after my boyfriend left, he apologized and wanted to know if I wanted to continue the relationship (and hinted that he wanted to move back in). My gut and all my friends and family tell me that letting him back in would be a bad idea, given his track record of jumping up and running away when he gets stressed (apparently his ex girlfriend came back into the picture and he didn't want to 'put me through that', but at the same time was willing to let me stay alone and try to afford this place on my own crappy paycheck).

    My heart is torn on whether to let him back or not. My new roommates have never met him but from what they've heard about him, they do NOT like him, but they wouldn't stop me from making my own decisions. I need the extra money and I'd love the company, but it's a tough decision I apparently have to make tonight. Help?
  • Anonymous Comment 1,Female, June 2010
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    I'd say no. If he walks out when he's under pressure, he's got some serious maturity issues to deal with before he's even halfway worth your trouble. I mean, think about if things really started to get bad--you obviously can't depend on him to be there for you! And if some other girl is in the picture, then why bother? He's not interested in you as much as he is a place to stay. His loss for walking out in the first place... HTH.
  • Anonymous Comment 2,Female, September 2010
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    If he walked out on you once...He WILL do it again!! Be smart girly you can find a man just like him if not better to keep you company in no time...
  • Anonymous Comment 3,Female, September 2010
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    yea i would say no. if you like him, you can continue the relationship, but in terms of rent, you dont want to get screwed if you're counting on him and just as soon as the rent is due you get in a fight and he leaves

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