ex troubles.

my ex boyfriend and i broke up about 3months ago. but he's still remained to cuddle or kiss me on occasions, and usually includes me in his life. whether that's inviting me over his, or going out to town for abit. we havent' seen other people while we've been apart and hes even told me he loves me still. but doesnt want to get back together yet. I really dont understand. Some days he wont even pick up the phone to me and then gets a huge load of miss calls from me. It makes me look like a stalker but what else can i do? He doesnt care, and i cant seem to leave him alone :( i need advice!! xx

This has happened to me where i call and call and think that he doesn't wanna talk but what i have found out is that you need to just let him come to you you don't have to put yourself down by calling and calling for his sorry ass. He sounds like he isn't really into having a relationship. Or maybe he doesn't want to because he goes out and he doesn't want to feel guilty if anything happens. I would wait for him to come to you unless it takes weeks. If he really cared about you he will call

i think you should cut him off and move on. he wants his cake and icecream,becausse you let him eat everytime .do not open a door you cant close. unless you want a casual relationship,thats your choice,but dont expect him to respect in the long term he may not. wakeup you are better than that. hes showing all the signs that you are not that impotant to him

Hate to say it but you need to move on, plenty of fish in the sea.

i think you should give him an ultimatium. how much more time is he going to waste being unsure what he wants in the relationship? tell him straight out, either we get back together soon or im leaving. you deserve someone that wants to be in a relationship with you fully