My friend's mom died two years ago. And now he blames everything on her death. Like his behavorial problems? "It's because my mom died." His grades? "My mom died, so I'm too sad to study." I realize that having a parent die is very, very traumatic, but...is it wrong for me to want him to just get over it already? Am I heartless because I'm getting tired of hearing about it every day? Am so confused...
i feel ya , i was there before one time in my life. eveerytime he or she talks about it, just give him or her an ecouraging words to lift their spirits eventually they will get over it in time. tell them that you understand, and that you belive that theyre mother would want them to succed in life because they will.God bless
Help your friend get through it by saying she is in a better place, she wants you to succeed, she's looking down on you hoping you have a great life...give him words of encouragement because it is so hard losing a parent.
I have a friend whos parents got divorced and he just gave up too. He stays inside all the time and plays video games and won't ever come out and do something with me or any of his other friends. He doesn't try in school and he has no passion for anything. I know this doesn't really help but I guess my point is you're not alone.
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