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Maybe he really loves you and wants to wait... or maybe your father told him to keep it in his pants until then or he'll cut it off :-)

He's probably doing this because he has lots of respect for you, I don't think that it has anything to do with commitment or attraction. If it was a commitment or attraction issue, he'd always be breaking up with you after having sex with you, or cheating on you with other girls. Waiting until you graduate highschool is also a really good idea because sex can mess up your life making it's hard for you to graduate and have a good future for yourself.

since i first made this comment...ive realized (corny as it seems) that my boyfriend and i have all kinds of time to have sex...and i dont need to have it right now...id rather jus love him and focus on things to better my future right now...so i think u guys r right :)

I really don't understand boys, but if you've been together for a while and you've both been trustworthy I think that means he's committed to you. I think he's being realistic by waiting.