confused

My boyfriend and i have been together for two years and he wont have sex with me until i graduate high school. I still have another year...and we've both already had sex with other peopl before we were together..so i dont see the point in waiting. He says he wants to wait until the right time, hes already out of school. I dont know if this is a way of being comitted to me or if he isnt attracted to me. Help please

Maybe he really loves you and wants to wait... or maybe your father told him to keep it in his pants until then or he'll cut it off :-)

He's probably doing this because he has lots of respect for you, I don't think that it has anything to do with commitment or attraction. If it was a commitment or attraction issue, he'd always be breaking up with you after having sex with you, or cheating on you with other girls. Waiting until you graduate highschool is also a really good idea because sex can mess up your life making it's hard for you to graduate and have a good future for yourself.

since i first made this comment...ive realized (corny as it seems) that my boyfriend and i have all kinds of time to have sex...and i dont need to have it right now...id rather jus love him and focus on things to better my future right now...so i think u guys r right :)

I really don't understand boys, but if you've been together for a while and you've both been trustworthy I think that means he's committed to you. I think he's being realistic by waiting.