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over my head i think....

  • Jill August 2010
    so i met this guy from Sudan awhile back that i used to run with in high school and he really liked me. When I broke up with my boyfriend I thought, why not just give going out with him a try as a casual thing, and since then I've really started to fall for him. We sometimes have issues communicating because sometimes we seem to have different beliefs. A few days ago we decided to have sex for the first time, and it got a little wierd. I never really thought about how he wouldn't be circumsized, and I dont know how that works, but when he put on a condum, somehow it made him bleed but he didn't tell me untill i noticed blood and that wasn't until after we were done. He said he thought it was because I was too tight, but it never hurt me or anything when we were having sex. I'm cocerned that some of his blood may have gotten inside me. I don't know if I should get tested now? Then after that he was saying how he was so glad that I chose to be with him forever, but I sort of ment it as like a casual thing. I don't know how things work in Africa, but I get the feeling if he was there we'd already be married or something. I don't know how to explain how I feel to him, I just want to date him. I'm also worried about the whole blood thing, someone please give me advice!
  • Anonymous Comment 1,Female, August 2010
    0 points
    be honest and say that you think things are going to fast and ask him about the blood

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