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he's not one for talking about his feelings

  • Jill August 2010
    I'm with a guy,we've been together since july 12 of this year but have known each other for 3 or 4 years (though we never were good friends). Because he was beaten by his father at the slightest sign of emotion most of his life,unless he's like black out drunk he doesn't open up like most guys would. Not to mention,he's dated his fair share of girls but only counts two of them as serious relationships and doesnt exactly know how to tell if he's in love or how to handle it. But he has said a few things here and there that hinted that maybe he's starting to fall for me. Things like.."you know your my baby,right?" and "because i sleep better when your cuddled up to me". It hasnt even been 3 months and i've met his sister,brother and law,nieces,nephews,mother,grandmother,grandfather,and his other grandmother and his aunt have apparently heard alot about me and cant wait to meet me.

    Help me,someone please tell me what it seems like or little things i can do or say or look for that might help me figure out how he feels.
  • Anonymous Comment 1,Male, May 2011
    0 points
    all you can do is talk to him and tell him your needs and fears be honest with him and your self

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