After college?

Jill

So I have A dilemma. I've been in a great healthy relationship with a guy for three years and I've been friends with him since we were ten. After college I was hoping to move in with him. But my aunt and uncle think it is too soon and we are too young. They don't even want me in a serious relationship because I am too young. Yet I am not the type to date around. But I definitely don't want to move back home with them( and my mother) if I can help it. My mother approves and supports me but I guess I just don't want to disappoint anyone. Yet i don't want to sacrifice my happiness for their views. We don't plan on marrying for another four years or so until we are stable. Yet if my aunt and uncle had their way I would break it off with him and be dating around testing the fish in the sea so to speak. But why break off a great thing? Any opinions? Is 21 too young to start my life? Should I wait until I am 28 like them to start serious relationships? Should I follow my heart and learn from the path I choose?

Anonymous

Don't mind them... Sort answer is live your own life. If you want to move in together then do it if it makes sense, feels right and you can afford it and you both have thought about it and really want to. You know the old saying, if you want to know me come live with me... What's the point in waiting years to find out when you do move in together it doesn't work? Not saying it won't, just that it's better to find out sooner rather then later. May be the best thing you ever do. Good luck.

Anonymous

The only thng i can tell you is follow your heart if in your heart you know he is the one for you then dont let anyone stand in your way. Seldom in life the heart speaks and when it does only a fool ignores it . so look inside and see where your heart leads you.
there is only one true happiness in life to love some one and to be loved in return.
so good luck and may love lead you in the right direction

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