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I don't want love. But my mind wants to text or call a girl friend daily even when she is committed.

  • Jack May 2011
    I've been friends with a girl for 3 years in college. Now college is over and she is committed and going to marry soon. But I always to text or call her everyday. I try to control myself from being distracted but then give up and call/text her. And when I do, it feels normal and boring. And when I finished texting or calling, I am normal for a while then again start to think of the previous chat and want to chat again. This is crazy rite? She never texts me first but she'll say we'll be friends forever and be in touch. She's the most beautiful girl friend I ever had but I don't want love to ruin my career and I don't want especially her as a life partner but only as a lifelong friend. Yet why my actions are like this? I need a third person view on this. How do I stop thinking about her and control my thoughts from distraction?
  • Anonymous Comment 1,Male, May 2011
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    rarely does the heart speak and when it does only a fool ignores it tell her how you feel if she rejects you in that way at least you will have closure and be able to move on
    i hope this helps you
  • Anonymous Comment 2,Female, May 2011
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    Maybe you are scared of losing her as a friend if you tell her how you feel. I agree with the above comment, you should tell her how you feel. You never know, she could be feeling the same. Normal and Boring are not necessarily a bad thing, but if you want to be with her, but want something exciting, maybe you should tell her that also. You could shake things up a bit to prevent it from being stale and boring.
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