Cheating

sorry to say but some one who cheats will do it again so leave him and find some one else you deserve better your true soulmate is out there

NO NO NO NO NO! Do not work things out with this guy. He will do it again, trust me. If he wants to keep her close, he obviously cant choose between his girlfriend and his best friend? which should start alarm bells ringing that its time to move on hun. He made his bed, he now must lie in it. He has done the utmost disrespectful thing he can do, do not allow this guy an easy ride. if he gets away with it once, he will think he can get away with it again. You should leave. However, that is easy for me to say. If you HONESTLY believe and trust that he will not do this again EVER, then you must not give him and easy ride and you must remind him what he could lose by doing such acts again.

we have a child together.. so i want to try and make this work

Tell him he has to chose what is most important to him, or leave him. He broke your trust, and if you stand down he will do it again.

hi..um i never cheated...i have a really heavy conscience...my ex and i are broken up but we still love eachother alloootttt in love actually...anyways my ex dances with other people and flirts but it means nothing and i believe them. but, i kissed someone a short kiss and i wanna know if i should tell them...or if i shouldnt cuz honestly we arent together. is that cheating?

did yu feel bad when it was over? then i feel its cheating...

yes i felt horrible the next day and i told my ex about it after posting the question. my ex said he could tell i was hiding something and i just let it out. it worked out well. so i am relieved.