Utterly Confused

Jack

Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for 9 months now. She's been getting extremely possessive over the past 2 months, she gets upset and guilts me if I go more than 10 minutes without texting her, she insists that I have to tell her what I'm going to be doing if I can't text her or call her, she's been getting hostile towards all my good female friends, and is overall been picking fights with me whenever I do ANYTHING with another girl who is not her friend or my relative.

I know this is bad and that I should break up with her especially since there is no possible way that i'll have a future with her. The thing is that she is pretty fragile and is a good person and I don't want to hurt her. She's been broken up with every summer for the past 3 years with guys she was serious with.

Any advice especially from a female perspective would be greatly appreciated.

*Note* We're both only 17.

Anonymous

I'm a girl, and If I was her, i'd want to know what you thought. So i'd tell her. I'd tell her that she can trust you, and she does not need to worry about anything. Tell her that it's getting out of control and that she should give her your space. Reassure her that you love her and you don't want to end things, but just talk with her, and if things get out of hand, then maybe you need to end things. If she is a sweet girl, then i'm sure she will find someone else if worst comes to worst, in this kind of situation, look after yourself. Hope that helped!

Anonymous

im a female im 25 and been with my boyfriend for 6 years and i can tell you that i have never once acted that way with a guy until i met my current boyfriend with him it was so different and it was because i was afraid to lose him and it took me awhile to learn that behavior will only drive him away, so your best bet is to talk to her but not saying to her stop doing this or that but ask her why she does it why she feels she needs you to always text her just ask her let her talk to you let her realize she can talk to you my guess is shes just afraid to lose you as u say a lot of men have left her. so she is probrably trying to keep a good eye on you as to not lose you but she doesnt realize she is pushing you away.

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