just stop

How does something that was perfect hurt you? Did you lose someone or something?

If it was that perfect. Why not get it back? Life can be short, don't waste time. This could be something that you are going to regret in life if you don't get it back.

If it hurts so much, it means that you still have feelings for that one person. If its been so long ago and it came back, its going to keep coming back. You should take that person back. As anon posted @ 12:26pm "could be something that you are going to regret in life if you don't get it back".

Dear, you still have feelings for this guy. That is why it hurts. Reason why it may be coming back is something in your life right now that isn't or doesn't feel right. Don't ignore your feelings. If it was perfect, it must mean that you two belong together.

If he was perfect, why are you two not together then?

There must been something that triggered these thoughts and memories. It seems like that you still have feelings for this person, strong feelings. If this person or relationship was perfect, why not get it back? Why fight this feelings and thoughts? Maybe you two were meant to be together. At first it might be hard to believe.

You should try to get back together with this person. Work out what ever problems you to had. If you do, I bet you two will have that perfectness back and have a good life together.

If that relationship was perfect, you will never have anything close to that with anyone else.

No relationship is perfect, every couple has its problems..

@ 8:05pm that is true. Yes, every relationship has problems, but there are other things that can make a relationship perfect to someone.

This is just going to repeat in your whole life. You need to drop whatever/whoever that is making you to have these thoughts again. Or fix it. Anything can be fixed if time and thought is given to it. From what others replied, I guess you lost someone and a relationship that was good, or as you say, perfect. If this person was good to you and was perfect. Why not give it another chance and fixed what happen.

sorry double post

Seeing that this is an old post. If you dont have feelings about him now, then that is something good because you dont have to put up with these feelings. But you said that it's been a long time. So you might get these feelings over and over maybe. If you are having feelings for him now. Why not try to get back together with him.