every single time.

Every time my boyfriend (of 3 years) and i get into an argument, i think about this guy i dated in like 7th grade for a few days, it was nothing really, but we've talked for 6 years on and off and i care alot about him. My boyfriend found out i was "talking" to him while we were dating at the veeerrrrry beginning of out 4th time we started dating again.. So he doesnt "let" me talk to him.. i cant blame him for that! But i just dont know if its normal to always think about wanting someone else, a particular someone else, at that!