Between being a parent and broken-hearted...

I have a beautiful daughter who has just turned three this last week. When she was born, her father and I were married. But by the time Kailiee (our daughter) was 6 months old, we divorced and shared custody. Due to work, my ex had to move up north for a seasonal shift. Whenever he came down here, he would stay in my guest room since he didn't have much founds to live by himself.

I am in no way shape or form against him staying here. He's completely 100% hands on with Kailiee. He's there for her, does the dishes, cleans the house, puts her to bed, shops for groceries..ect. He's truely not a bad father, in fact, I wish my father was more like him when I was growing up.

Kailiee understand that Mommy and Daddy are just friends, hence why daddy sleeps in his own room.

My ex and I, however, aren't truely over each other. At least, I still have a few heart strings that belong to him. I feel like I always will. He's the father of my child, after all! But last night urked me and I really don't know what to do about it.

I came home late from work and saw Kailiee in bed. I normally just check in with my ex to make sure things were okay, and that he knew that I was home. But when I opened his door, there was another girl in bed with him. I obviously just quietly shut the door, but I am really upset over this. This morning I didn't hear her leave, and by the time Kailiee and I were up, there was no women here. I asked him about it, but in a way of "I noticed there was a car outside last night..." instead of a "Who are you sleeping with?". He just said it was an old friend that wanted to stop by, ect.

I understand that technically this house is shared between us, but my main concern is about Kailiee. I don't want her to see him with another women, and I definitely don't want to see him with another women myself. I don't know if it's me just being upset over it, or if it's a legit concern to have. I don't know... my mind is just racing with problems.