Heartbreak

You're allowed to be upset. Being upset is just part of a loss of a love. If a guy doesn't like you like that, there's really little if anything you could do to change that. No one's ever died from a heartbreak. Listen to a few sad songs, eat some ice cream, cry your heart out, then when all of that is said and done, remember that there's life after loss to continue.

Dear Jill,
I don't really know a whole lot about you or your situation, but I can tell you that maybe if this person was mistreating you and taking you for granted so strongly, then it may be for the better. I know that it's hard to lose someone in your life that you can't seem to stopping thinking about and that's a big part of your life. But it sounds like he should have explained himself better to you when he was reducing you to such a state of being heartbroken. So, don't regret what has happened. My advice to you is to do what the above answer says to do, but when its done, try to have hope for the future. You are a wonderful human being and you deserve to feel good. Maybe, this is a blessing in disguise. And someone else who will treat you well, like his equal, and communicate with you may be waiting on the other side. There's nothing that can happen in this life now that can keep you from being happy later. I hope this helps. I hope you feel better. I really do. My heart goes out to you.

he told me he was sick to his stomach thinking about what he put me through.nd i told him i was okay and that nothing i do can change his mind so theres no point. I know ill be okay in time, it just hurts because he was my first love nd i would have done anything for him. My friends have always hated him so they of course said i was better off. Thats why i came to this site, where nobody has an instant opinion set in stone. Thank you both of you for your help, i really do appreciate it.

Just remember regardless, that first loves are just that: first. So learn something from it, but don't be afraid to give something else a chance. Just because it never happened before the first time doesn't mean it won't happen again and work out better the next time. I doubt that many first serious relationships work out perfectly for anyone. I've seen it happen a lot. And I'm glad to hear that you believe that you will be okay. :)