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  • Jack September 2011
    I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year and I truly love her and plan on putting every ounce of myself into this relationship. I recently found that she was keeping a list of her past boyfriends/sexual partners and I'm not sure what to do. I'm on the list as her latest boyfriend and I never doubted her commitment to the relationship, but I hate the ides of being on a secret list. What, if anything, should I do?
  • Anonymous Comment 1,Female, September 2011
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    Dont do a thing. She could simply just be keeping it so that she does not loose track.. in case she gets married she may want her spouce to know all about her past, and if therr's alot then she needs to keep it written down.. however, if she knows you know about it.. ask her what its all about, and if she doesnt know you know about it... tell her!!
  • Anonymous Comment 2,Male, September 2011
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    why the hell would she keep a list?
  • Anonymous Comment 3,Female, September 2011
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    Perhaps the list is for if she ever finds out she has an std or just so that she can tell her husband whoever he turns out to be, and not miss a detail?
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