My girlfriend is pleasantly plump and I totally love her body, but she is trying to lose weight. I want her to be healthy, but I hate the idea of losing weight because her curves are what attacked me to her in the first place. She is determined to drop the pounds and I fear her bodacious booty will turn into flat ass. How do I convince her to stay how she is?
well, its not healthy to be a fatass... so she does need to loose weight.. and getting into shape is important..and good for her.. and thats a good thing that she is actually pulling through and making it happen because most girl just say they wanna get fit and healthy but never do anything about it.. be proud of her! dont try to change her mind when she is doing something for herself, and that is good for her!
I understand where you're coming from because although being with someone should not be ALL about their looks, it's still an important aspect. You have to be somewhat physically attracted to the person you're with at the very least. I think you should express to her that you love her curves and that you don't want her to lose that. She can still work out, get fit, and be healthy without being a stick figure. Try to come up with a compromise. Good Luck