boyfriend flirts with friend.

Wow! he really need to step up his game if he wants to be with you. You acould try an ultimatum...lay down the law.let himknowif he is not ready tochange his behaviour you cannot be with him in the long term. trust me,there is nothing as hard as living with a flirt....fromexperience.

My boyfriend is the same way (a flirt, I mean). Mine is even worse though because he flirts with women EVERYWHERE, ALL the time. I mean, I feel like I can't take him anywhere. At the grocery store he'll flirt with the cashier, at the gas station, even at park. It's like he HAS to pick up conversation with a female everywhere we go. It's so annoying at times. I've brought it up to him and he seems to be trying to fix it but he still hasn't stopped completely. It's like he doesn't even realize he's doing it! I acknowledge and appreciate his efforts but it still bothers me that flirting is his first and natural response to women... Like geez, can't you just NOT talk to any girls sometimes? On top of that, he's one of those guys that gets the whole "it's what's on the inside" thing so he talks to all women no matter their age, size, or looks. I don't want to seem overly insecure or naggish (:/) I especially don't want to be the nitpicking woman that loses her relationship because she's too busy looking at the small stuff LIKE her boyfriend being "friendly" (???or is it small stuff??? ugh, idk) instead of focusing on all the good he does for her and their relationship... Do you think I'm just over reacting? Anyways, I've gone off subject lol sorry for the rant. As far as for my take on your situation... Yeah, I agree with you that it seems fishy. I think you should go on and confront him about it. Ask him what's REALLY going on? It seems to me like you've been suspicious for a while, follow your gut girly ;o) Oh and if you figure out a way to get through to him.... SHARE HOW YOU DID IT so I can try it too!!! lol