Don't know what I should do =(

Jill

My boyfriend just admitted to having a gambling problem. I am proud of him for taking the first step by admitting he has a problem and also having himself personally banned from the casinos anywhere in the province we live in. However, we now have no money for food, rent, or bills. I'm debating on whether or not I should tell my parents and ask them for a little bit of money just so we can get some food to tide us over until next payday, but I have a strong feeling that my mom will tell me to leave him and I don't think that's what he needs right now. I want to help him with this! I don't think my dad would be as judgemental, but he doesn't want me to say anything to them...please help! I'm sad, lost and confused! =( Also, what else can I personally do to help him through this?

Anonymous

Well, ive never been put in this situation, but i i was you i would not leave him.. he doesnt need that right now, it will only make everything worse. i would try my best to help him through itt. you should ask a friend before you ask your parents for money, just because you wouldnt have to explain in detail, just say "to tie us over for a few weeks" and then leave it at that! nobody will want you to have their money i they know he gambles, so i would just say "we ran low, or overspent" because.. its true, in a way!

Anonymous

You didn't know about the gambling at all?? How did he hide it? If all this could have been prevented.. Then don't ask for help.

Don't know what I should do =(

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