Today my girlfriend told me I am too obsessed with her. When i asked her what to do to make her love me like she used to she told me to not be so needy. I want her to be all over me like she used to! We have been together for 8 months now and in the beginning she was obsessed with me and I loved it but then I hurt her but she said she forgives me but I want things to go back to how they used to be :( what should I do?! Please help. I want her to chase me and want me.
hmmm. that is a tough one. I would say, depending on how your guys are, just act like you need your space. I was like that with my boyfriend of two years and I said he was too needy and stuff then i realized that i was over thinking,so maybe she needs her space, and you need yours. still talk but try doing other things and let her beg to hang out with you but not too much because she will get tired of it. how did you hurt her?
jealousy and being needy is not attractive, this is the reason she's stand-offish and not 'chasing' you anymore... you need to show her that you trust her and give her some space.
Pratice being apathetic towards her. If you are always showing her love and affection and letting her know you love her she's really got nothing to chase.