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not good enough

  • Jill October 2011
    Well I feel very selfcautious about myself ....i feel very ugly,fat,hopeless,not good enough, ....and I know that everyone has self apearance issues but i honestly hate myself....i ask myself everyday why im not as pretty or petite as all of the other girls surounding me ..and that a guy will never want me because im not as good as those girls and that i will end up lonly the rest of my life....i just dont know what to do
  • Anonymous Comment 1,Female, October 2011
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    Every girl, believe it or not, feel in some way or at some point in their life just as you do. Even guys do, but on a more manly scale, as in if they are man enough for the right girl or to accomplish things in life. You aren't alone. If you hate yourself, its bound to show. but, as many of us have been told, its not what is on the out side that counts, not what other people think of us that count. Mr. Right (as many of us like to call him) will come about eventually, you just either have to have patience or go looking for him in the right way. Ive done a lot of waiting.... its taken patience to learn patience. Facing something like self worth is just what its called. Its finding worth with in your self. Make a list of the things that make you happy about your personality, no matter how small or trivial you think they are. You are who you make your self to be. So be that girl you want. Don't let any one hold you back. Be reasonable. Don't be rash or inconsistent.
  • RetroGagaFreakRetroGagaFreak Comment 2, October 2011
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    I used to feel the same way about myself. Until someone finally made me realize that I am beautiful inside and out. I also used to hate myself, but I was going through depression, and am now finally not hating myself as much as I used to. If you honestly hate yourself, try to change that.

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