We're both in high school, and I met her a little over a year ago. She seemed to really like me (at least as a friend, though I suspect a little more than that), she gave me her number, would enthusiastically text me, hug me, etc. I am positive that if I had asked her out at this time, she would have said yes. After a few months, we grew a little distant, she wouldn't text me as much, and I started becoming the one approaching her more times than not. We got in an argument a few weeks before school ended and she was mad at me. I ended up apologizing and she said it was all fine blah blah, but we pretty much stopped talking. A week into summer, she texted me asking me if I was upset at her for being mad at me, I said no, it was a pretty small conversation. This was all before I liked her.
Then school started, and I started crushing on her. Hard. She approached me and said hi, how was your summer, etc. etc. and I started talking to her a bit more, I'd text her a little, but it's just not the same, she doesn't talk to me about her life as much as she used to, she doesn't ask me for advice on her problems anymore, she rarely ever approaches me anymore, I can tell she doesn't care for me like she used to. She clicks "like" on all my "like my status and I'll tell you this" stuff on Facebook, if that means anything lol. In the past week I think I've upset her though, my friend and I played some rude jokes on her (not my idea). I heard from one of our mutuals that she thinks I'm a weirdo. She has a boyfriend now too, but I've never met him.
I think, if she's ever liked me at all, she's moved on and I'm afraid to talk to her too much in case she finds me annoying. Any advice on how I can fix this problem, how to get her to like me the way she did before or what you think is going through her mind?
girls can be strange, moody, and unpredictable, I should know, I am one :P anyways, any number of things could be going through her mind. you two had a falling out with that fight, and who knows, she might be the type of girl to be strong and make herself get over you because of that fight. some girls will always come back, some might never. my advice is to not overwhelm her, but remind her you're still around with the little things. say hi in the halls at school, ask her what's wrong when she seems sad, etc. be there for her, but dont text her everyday until you're sure you aren't annoying her. to girls, it can seem creepy that a guy smothers you with attention when its not the guy you want to be doing the smothering. stay close, but not too close. comment back if you want any more advice?
Try to talk to her more. Any rude jokes that would piss her off, cut back on. Don't try to totally bump her boyfriend out of the picture, but just try to make it clear that you're there for her whenever you need her. This may be able to remind her why she may have liked you before.
Thanks everyone. I just feel like it'll never be the same between us again, it makes me sad that I could have been with her when I didn't want to, but now that I do I can't.