I'm lost without him, someone please help!!!!!

Jill

My boyfriend and I, are under the age of eighteen, and both drug addicts. Me, moreso. Well, a few weeks ago, we were both feening, and I knew my dad had a boat motor. I knew that reclaim would take it, and that the money could go towards a bag. I feel awful now, but in a desperate attempt to get high, My boyfriend and I stole the boat motor. It was brand new, according to my father. Well, my sister told on us after getting into a fight with my boyfriend. Which, he was right in. I need advice on what to do now. My father has punished me, and as for that punishment, my boyfriend and I, are NOT allowed to see each other. My dad said he would shoot him. I think he is just angry. I am going to pay my father back the $150 for the motor, and try an get the motor back. I need help on what my boyfriend should do. We don't want to stop seeing each other. But,dad refuses to speak to him. Should my boyfriend call him? Talk to him face to face? Pay him? Bring the motor back if he can? What do we do? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous

first go to rehab and get over your dependance find another guy this one is obviously a bad infulence on you
if you stay this course you are not going to get anywhere in life just end up with your family disowning you and living on the streets
so grow up and start earning respect no one else will do it for you

Anonymous

i agree . get some help first . if he is lettin u think that this is ok to do then he isnt right for you .
from experience( i have never used ) when u start young it ends up hurting the ones you love the most and u will never really be forgiven no matter how much they tell you they do.
my whole family is messed up on drugs and everyday i ahve to sit and wonder if im going to get a call or be pulled from school sayin something has happened..
u may "love" your boyfriend , but family is a first priority.. so go get help for both of u then re evaluate your relationship . but make amends with ur family first . or else u will go no where

Anonymous

People who use together have a near impossible time of getting clean together. You influence each other and if one of you is weak, both of you are. You need to seperate and get some distance. Drugs are affecting the way you treat your own father, he should be extremely angry at you. If you want him to accept your relationship, show him youre both mature and serious about getting clean. If you show that youre sincere, im sure hed be very happy about it. If you dont want to get clean, get used to stealing from your family and friends.

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