okay, so this shouldn't be long. I just.. I've always thought I was in love with this guy, but I look at him and how he treats his girlfriend and I don't want to be with him, yet I don't like him any less. i really dont get it. I need to get over him, but i don't know how, and part of me doesn't want to. any advice?
My friend is in the same situation and she is still feeling for him. basically short, "The Heart Wants What The Heart Wants" and it will probably ease off over time. Think of others in a different light or point out flaws that are "turn off's" and realize them so he is less of a attraction. I'm not the brightest but it kinda helped my friend out. (Best Of Luck!)
Well, you have to think about it and obviously you cant just be over him because you need to be. That just doesnt happen no matter how much we wish it did. Get with new people, hang out with new people, meet new guys and see the good things in them that are better than him. Hopefully, you'll find someone wonderful for you and get over him, which i know is easier said then done. Good luck hun.