I am 20 and i go to school at this small college. I am an international student from a totally different culture that contrasts with American culture. College is supposed to be the best four years of your life; but i find it hard to enjoy when 3 years have gone by without any significant improvement in my sex/love life. I just find it hard to connect to girls here on that level. I don’t know if it is the cultural difference but it’s hard to pick up girls here. I am worried I will never have sex/ and there are times where i experience sad/semi depressing thoughts. is there a part of me I need to change? I am pretty sociable and well liked, and very popular in this small college too.
The best thing you can do is be yourself. Some people go through life without meeting someone special for a long time, but if you are happy with yourself, then someone will come along that will also be happy with who you are.