Awkward Situation

Jack

Recently a friend I just met has came over. He lacks personality and anything I like to do he doesn't. I hung out with him out because I felt bad for him being new and not having any friends. He now wants to spend the night. I a reasons that point to him being gay and it makes me uncomfortable. I've never met anyone so straight forward and fast. We barely have fun at my house so I wonder the point of him coming over or having the want to come over. His sister thinks I'm wanting him but I don't like him at all D: ...... So I only have three questions of advice:
1: What is a way to let him down and say no to coming over?
2: What should I say to his sister?
3: What do you think is going on?

Anonymous

Do you know if this kid is gay? Does he think your gay?

Anonymous

Well, you should tell him as much of the truth as you feel comfortable with. Don't just be like "you're gay, and I don't want you to come over!" Just say something like "I don't know if I'm comfortable with a sleepover". Tell his sister the truth, that you don't "want" him. As for what is going on, he probably just wants to spend more time with you because he wants to be friends. However, just do what you're comfortable with.

Anonymous

As far as i can tell, he is gay but trying hard to act straight to the public eye. If you're popular at school he probably thinks no one will question his sexuality if he claims he has "slept over" at your house. Explain to his sister how you feel about him, and what you believe he is doing. Just tell him your honest opinion, sometimes thats the best option. Please read mine: http://www.advicebit.com/discussion/506/confused-and-in-love#Item_1

Jack

Thanks for all the advice everyone, it turns out that he was bisexual and thought i was gay. talk about awkward... but anyway he and his sister thought i was gay because of how much time i spend with girls (i guess because gay guys usually spend majority of their time with girls instead of boys) i eventually told them both that i was straight politely and i talked to him since. though, i stay in touch with his sister, she said that he is embarrassed to even show his face infront of me. i feel terrible because i put him in such a weird position but in the same way he did to me too so i guess everything is fine.

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