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am i trying too hard i need help

  • Jack December 2011
    my friends think i am trying too hard with my girl and i need to know if i should back off a little
    my plans for next month are that i want to take her to a coral reef where i can wine and dine with her
    and in the evening i have planned to ask her to marry me i have organized a violinest fireworks and serenaders
    am i trying too hard and should i back off a little
    any advice will be appricated thanks
  • Anonymous Comment 1,Female, December 2011
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    how old are you two?
  • Jack Comment 2, December 2011
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    i am 35 and she is 28
  • Anonymous Comment 3,Female, December 2011
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    i would back off a little, nothing hurts more then rejection, and it could even ruin your relationship. If you haven't been going out that long, i think you should take it slow. If you've done this kind of thing before to her and she's reacted positively, go for it.
  • Anonymous Comment 4,Female, February 15
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    I would back off a little. go for it only if you are 100000% sure her answer will be positive. if you havent been going out for that long, I would back off and see where time takes you for a while, and then maybe try it.
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