Ok so i have a problem. i know these two girls. jill and jane. now jill has just been a friend to me until recently. one night when we were hanging out like normal there was a stronger attraction between us. both her and i felt it because we had a long discussion about our feelings for each other. now she told me she is into me but doesn't want to ruin our friendship. but we both feel strongly about each other.
now jane i met over the weekend and we hit it off good. she is crazy goofy and a dork and i find that attractive in a woman. also pretty much the whole weekend we hung out and watched tv or had breakfast together etc etc. now we never got intimate even tho both of us wanted to. i chose not to because of my recent events with jill.
now lately i get the feeling that jill is not trying hard enough to hang out with me more if she felt how she did that night. and jane has been there but i don't want to lead her on.
here is my issue. jill is amazing and pretty and fun. jane is also amazing and pretty and fun. i don't know if i should tell jill look i feel we should be together because who knows what the futures like or should i talk to jane and become closer to her?
I think jill had the right to know aot how you feel, you need to let it out, theres no point being bottledup inside, because it gets you down, sit down with her, get her a cup of coffie and talk about recent events, tell her you really dont know what to do, and hopefullyshe will be able to help.
You should definitely be honest with both women...you don't want to lose your best friend by being dishonest just as you don' want to lose her by taking your relationship to the next level. In my opinion you should just lay it all out on the table to both of them and go from there. If your best friend is avoiding you because her feelings are deepening for you, then perhaps you should both just agree to keep things as they are and you should give your nerd a chance!